Lol. Was just having a talk with my gf earlier today.
So the topic was about exs.
As usual, we started off with us both telling each other stories about our love life in a chronological order.
Gosh come to think about it, most of my recent blog posts are all about love haha
So I spoke briefly about my most of my exs and went deeper for some relationships that I still remember well. To be honest, the ones I remember most was my first love which began at 13, my high school sweetheart and Jay, the one who brought much joy into my life although just for a short period of time. The rest, just vivid images and memories.
Then she asked me, do you remember the date you got together? I thought about it for a while... and I realised, I only remember the date Jay and I got together! And that's amongst the rest! I know for a fact I rarely forget anniversaries and back then I was almost positive I will never forget the date I got together with my high school sweetheart, but heck! I can't seem to remember at all. That, really lightened me up!
Then she asked again, do you remember any of their birthdays? I thought about it for a while, only to realise at the moment.. that I only remember the birthdays of 2 of my exs as mentioned above; my high school sweetheart and Jay.
I'm impressed, with myself.
Therefore the conclusion is, time does not just heal, time also helps forget. I can't wait till the day I forget the birthdays of the 2 of them :)